WeekTwo
As I was reading this week's
chapter, I started to look deeper into my personality. I began to realize more
about myself than I knew, and the people I surround myself with. For instance,
I noticed that I have more of a creator mindset than those who have a victim
mindset. For years, I just thought I would over think situations, but it was
just me wanting to get things accomplished while trying to figure the best
option. As an example, it is my sister's wedding this Saturday, and she is
concerned about it raining for photos. I simply told her to call her
photographers about options of indoor places to take photos. Instead of her stressing
out, I wanted to figure out all our options as a plan B. As her sister, it is important is to relieve
some stress for her big day.
I believe that everyone has a choice in life,
and it is up to them to choose as they will. I know that all my choices in life
may have a negative or positive outcome. This is why I find it necessary to
think things through carefully. Now, on the other hand, my boyfriend thinks on
impulse. I feel like I have to be his voice of reason and knock some sense into
him!
I try my best to stay positive, but
there are days where things seem to be very frustrating and everything is going
wrong. I know I am not perfect, but it can seem impossible to get through it
with a creative mindset. I ask you as the reader, what are some ways you came
out a situation with a creative mindset?
Hi Amanda, great Blog! I can also relate to having a better mindset then my sister as well. I mentioned in my Blog that in my work environment, it can be a little overwhelming with nonsense; and I have mastered not to associate myself with their nonsense. However my sister on the other hand takes everything to the heart! For example, a couple weeks ago we both worked registration and there was a rumor that my sister stole a special pen from someone. Keep in mind there were hundreds of parents and kids coming in to register for school. This person was telling everyone that she was upset and she demanded to get the pen back. My sister swore she had no idea what pen she was talking about and was upset that everyone knew that she was a pen stealer! When my sister explained that rumor I laughed so hard and I told her "why are you stressing over a pen?" I told her to brush it off or simply say "one out of a thousand parents could have taken it and apologize for the loss of her pen." My sister later laughed about the whole thing even until now!
ReplyDeleteHello Amanda! The situation with your sister is a great example of a Creator Mind. I usually evaluate the situation to find a positive outcome. I also ask my self, “what’s the worst it can happen”.
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